Queries - Virtual Worship for White Friends Confronting Racism
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11/1/2024 Queries

As we were leaving the meeting, a white Quaker woman who was sitting on a crucial decision-making committee at the WCC told me, “You know, no one in this group is trying to marginalize you, and no one at the WCC is trying to marginalize you.”
I told her, “I would be happy to have this conversation with you if you like, but it merits more time than two minutes on the way to the bus. Since you are in a position of power, I understand why you would say that. But I will just point out that that is what the powerful always say to and about the marginalized.”
It would have been much more helpful to me if this woman had said, “You have a point of view I haven’t heard. I’m distressed about it. And, in my position of power, I want to make sure that I can hear your voice fully. Would you be willing to meet with me and talk?” This would have signaled to me that she was willing to listen about how I felt marginalized, rather than engage in a rather dismissive one-minute conversation, and that she was open to learning about the process of marginalization within WCC of which she might be unaware. ..I hope that my experience as an indigenous woman can be taken seriously.
-”The Land is Not Empty,” Sarah Augustine, 2021, Herald Press, pp 67-8.

Queries
  • What did I learn from this quote?
  • How will this quote impact my actions in the future?
  • What characteristics of white supremacy culture cause us to marginalize others?

10/25/2024 Queries 

“They don’t love you like I love you” 

Queries
  • In the poem, Diaz writes of a mother cautioning her daughter not to need the love of white people in order to know her own goodness. 
  • How does it feel in your body to hear this.
  • How do you decenter whiteness in your interactions with others? 

10/18/2024 Queries

“To pray you open your whole self
To sky, to earth, to sun, to moon
To one whole voice that is you
And know there is more
That you can't see, can't hear
Can't know except in moments
Steadly growing, and in languages
That aren't always sound but other
Circles of motion.
Like eagle that Sunday morning
Over Salt River. Circled in blue sky
In wind, swept our hearts clean
With sacred wings.
We see you, see ourselves and know
That we must take the utmost care
And kindness in all things.
Breathe in, knowing we are made of
All this, and breathe, knowing
We are truly blessed because we
Were born, and die soon within a
True circle of motion,
Like eagle rounding out the morning
Inside us.